Remember the Jennifer Lopez song Love Don't Cost a Thing? How many of you all can relate? Ladies, how many of you have had men in your life that say things like "Baby, I love you. I spent my last dime on you" or "If I didn't care I wouldn't have bought you anything"? Its time men know, gifts SUPPLEMENT relationships. They don't make them. Monetary gifts are not testimonies to love if there isn't any real action behind it.
I know, I know, women love to go back to the Taj Mahal story. The mausoleum whose pure massiveness is purported to show the intense love the emperor had for his wife. Newsflash, women love sparkly things but not if they don't feel the love behind it. If there's no passon in your words, tenderness in your touch, fire in your kiss and love in your eyes then the little trinkets you throw at her remain trinkets, not a testament to your love.You want to keep your woman? Tell her you love her and mean it. Otherwise you're just a bland, empty relationship for show:
Don't they look happy folks? Guess Kim really feels the love through that Bentley he helped buy her.
Lessons Learned: Remember Carrie and Big. They did the outlandish wedding and home and failed. When they brought it back down to the simple things, the elements of their love, they achieved!
PSA 4: My Love Don't Cost A Thing
Ann E. Nigma at 1:13 PM